1 – Make her feel secure- don’t joke about divorcing her, this will put a hole in your marriage.
2 – Always greet her whenever you arrive
3 – Your wife is a fragile vessel so take care of her- In this vessel there is a lot of goodness so treat her in a gentle manner.
4 – Advice her in privacy and the best timing. Don’t advice her in the presence of others, it can be a type of humility
5 – Be generous with her
6 – Move out of your way for her, when she’s coming to sit get up and let her sit on your seat tell her: ‘here honey sit I warmed up the seat for you’
7 – Avoid anger.
8 – Look good for her and smell great.
9 – Don’t be rigid, you will broken- just because you are a man doesn’t mean you have to be harsh hearted
10 – Be a good listener
11 – Say yes for flattering and no for arguing.
12 – Call your wife with the best names she likes to hear. i.e: the prophet (Saw) used to call Aisha- A’ish!
13 – Surprise her secretly. Ex: Bring her a watermelon when it’s not the season of watermelons. Pick and choose in surprising her, be an artist in surprising her pleasantly.
14 – Preserve the tongue.
15 – Accept her shortcomings/ everyone has one.
16 – Show your appreciation to her.